It's a difficult fine line for parents of a child suffering with a (SUD) substance use disorder. Defining clear healthy boundaries is necessary for parents and other family members of a loved one with a SUD. Not all whose minds are high-jacked/ impaired by chronic substance use embrace families "being involved" in their care and HIPPA laws make this very difficult. I am seeing an alarming shift in dealing with a person who has a SUD. I was told once by a treatment counselor you can "love an addict to death". I didn't understand it at the time but now I get it. You can get pulled into the vortex of another's addiction and think you are "helping them" but you are enabling them. It's a trial and error method of figuring out what's helping and whats enabling. The line gets blurry when a person is a master at getting what they want, lying or manipulating people (even family). HELPING is doing something for someone that he/she is not capable of doing himself. ENABLING is doing for someone things that he/she could and should be doing himself. --The Jennifer Act www.thejenniferact.com … [Read more...]
My Prayer for “Special Mothers”-By: Sharon Blair
Prayer for Special Mothers Reflection and prayer for all the mothers who have addicted sons and daughters teenagers or adults makes no difference Christian mothers are taught to trust "have faith, don't worry" to do anything else is lacking trust in God Almighty, we hang on then hang on the ankles of our sons and daughters crying tears their feet in desperation we beg and we plead "here we go again" the familiar tape plays over no one understands only a mother who walks the lonely road of fear and dread of lurking danger understands and reads between these lines other mothers will never know what THIS mother lives each day the sons and daughters who succumbed to Satan's lies his deadly whispering call they have names! some even have children! all that is left are pictures and dreams of what could have been what shouldn't be what heartache and pain each day to breathe to these special mothers who tried to set them free who tried to release … [Read more...]
Indiana Senate Concurrent Resolution No.41 (SCR 41) State Senator Eric Bassler
Indiana State Senator Eric Bassler has drafted legislation- Senate Concurrent Resolution No. 41. The Resolution was heard at the Indiana Statehouse in The Senate Chamber on Tuesday, Feb.20, 2018 at 1:30pm and in the House Chamber at 1:45pm. This is located on the 3rd floor, Senate & House side. The public attended and sat on the 4th floor in the Senate gallery to watch (it overlooks the Senate chamber). I was present with State Senator Eric Bassler on the Senate floor to introduce SCR No.41 and present with State Rep. Bob Heaton on the House floor. Here is the vote and actions taken: INDIANA Actions for Senate Concurrent Resolution 41 H 02/22/2018 Representative Davisson added as cosponsor H 02/21/2018 Returned to the Senate H 02/20/2018 First reading: adopted voice vote S 02/20/2018 Referred to the House S 02/20/2018 House sponsor: Representative Heaton S 02/20/2018 First reading: adopted voice vote S 02/20/2018 Authored by Senator Bassler Footer navigation links We must stay diligent in addressing the drug epidemic in Indiana and across the country. We are losing 174 a day to overdose deaths, according to the CDC. These are alarming statistics. Senate Concurrent Resolution 41 was adopted in both the Senate & House Chambers. **Click here to read Senate Concurrent Resolution No .41: SCR NO. 41- Sen. … [Read more...]
The Jennifer Act
The Jennifer Act website has been in operation for 9 years! I took a look back at the first blog posts and through the years. What an awesome journey of grief, sorrow, many prayers, ups & downs, traveling, lobbying, victories, defeats, helping, shedding tears & prayers with families in crisis, working with and meeting state lawmakers & governors, congressmen, legislative assistants, coalition groups, schools, churches, pastors, teachers and students! Jennifer's life has blessed many people and still impacts lives today. I encourage everyone to pray and do what (ministry) your heart leads you to do. Your passion (and brokenness) will bless/encourage someone. God has a plan. -Sharon Blair (Jennifer's Mother) … [Read more...]
State of The Union Address President Donald Trump
President Donald Trump addressed the opioid epidemic at the State of The Union Address. In 2016, we lost 64,000 Americans to drug overdoses. 174 deaths per day. Seven per hour. We must get much tougher on drug dealers and pushers if we are going to succeed against this scourge. My administration is committed to fighting the drug epidemic and helping get treatment for those in need, for those who have been so terribly hurt. The struggle will be long and will be difficult. But as Americans always do, in the end, we will succeed. We will prevail. -- President Trump Thank you Mr. President, for working on the opioid epidemic. Lets work together to save lives. -- Sharon Blair Jennifer Reynolds Mother The Jennifer Act … [Read more...]
FLORIDA- Grandparents Visitation- Jan.19, 2018- Senator Darryl Rouson’s Proposal #64
Friday , January 19th in Tallahassee Can you be there? 301 Senate Office Building Community Room 8:00 A.M. – Noon Let your voices be heard. Focus on the harm to the grandchild at this hearing. CRC Proposal #64 is scheduled to be heard between 8:00 and Noon on Friday, January 19th in Tallahassee - Take Action NowWhile I realize that Family Dynamics can be complicated, it’s perplexing why anyone would put up resistance to allowing grandparents to petition the court on a case by case basis to visit their grandchildren. To my knowledge, and I could be wrong there are no restrictions on others who want to petition the court so why block Florida grandparents? It is borderline discriminatory! This message is not only going out to people in the loop, it’s also going out to every member of the Florida House. As a Florida grandparent, and there are many of us and YES we vote we are calling on Florida House members to make contact with Florida Constitution Revision committee members prior to 1/19 to support Senator Rouson’s proposal # 64: DECLARATION OF RIGHTS, Right of Privacy; Section 23 of Article I of the State Constitution to specify that the right of privacy may not be construed to limit a grandparent’s right to seek visitation of his or her grandchildren under certain circumstances. I’m confident that there are many Florida House members who are grandparents, and although you may not think it can happen in your family - it can! You can … [Read more...]
January 15th, 2009- The Saddest Day of My Life
Monday is January 15, 2018. --January 15, 2009 will mark the day my life permanently changed forever, in an instant. I have played that tape over in my mind many times and wish I could erase it but I can't. January 15th is the day that the dreaded knock came at my front door in the early hours of the morning and a Pinellas County Deputy was standing at my door. He asked me if I was Jennifer Reynolds mother. That instant, my heart sank. I was trying to concentrate on his next words, but my mind was in denial this was really happening. I was hoping I was dreaming this, since I was awoken from my sleep. Sadly it was reality. I asked the Sheriff's Deputy if Jennifer was okay. He said "no". I asked him if it was "bad". He said "yes". I asked if was "very bad". He said, "yes". I asked if Jennifer was dead. He said, "yes". I asked, "are you sure you have the right person" and "where is she". He said yes, it is her and she is at Largo Medical Hospital. She was brought there by ambulance after a friend called 911 that she was not breathing. She was pronounced dead at the hospital. They worked on her for about 35 minutes, but she was non- responsive. She would be taken to the Pinellas County Coroner's Office, a few miles from the hospital. I had to wait until the Pinellas County Coroner's office opened, to ask if I could see my daughter. They told me, "no" and that they do not show bodies to families at their facility. I told them I was Jennifer's mother and … [Read more...]
The Jennifer Act Extends a Heartfelt Wish to All a Joyous Merry Christmas
The Jennifer Act Mission-- In memory of Jennifer Marie Reynolds- Dec. 29, 1979-- Jan.15, 2009 … [Read more...]
Mental Health America of Indiana- Heroes for Recovery -2017
I am thankful to be presented with this 2017 Certificate of Nomination as a Hero for Recovery for Indiana. . Heroes for Recovery is a Mental Health America of Indiana recognition program that celebrates the dedication and commitment of those that truly promote recovery of individuals in their ongoing treatment of serious and persistent mental illness and addiction recovery. This program is underwritten by MHAI and our sponsors, and celebrates these “Heroes” and their families. … [Read more...]
Remembering Jennifer Reynolds at The Christmas Season- 2017
Reflecting on another Christmas holiday season, without my beloved daughter, Jennifer Reynolds and her precious only son, Trey who is now age 16 years. This is the 8th Christmas without Jennifer in our family and nine years since we have seen Trey. Time has a way of marching on, yet when a child dies, it seems like yesterday that they were here, talking, laughing and sharing hopes and dreams of the future. December is a hard month, because this is Christmas and also Jennifer's birthday- Dec. 29th. I can't help but wonder what things would be like if Jennifer were still here with us. She dreamed of going to St. Petersburg College and attaining her (CAP) license with a goal of a Recovery Coach to help others struggling with addiction. She also was a mother who longed to be with her son, Trey and watch his milestones unfold. I am sure she would be doing both of these things if she were still alive. Life has a way of going through the twists and turns and sometimes tragedies win, in spite of efforts to attain a better place on the rung of life. This has been the case with Jennifer's brief life. I can see that God had a plan for Jennifer's life, for her son, Trey and for me. I cannot see the whole picture yet, but I can reflect on the eight years since Jennifer departed. I know that Jennifer's death launched me into a spring board of a mission and advocacy work, that I never had planned on doing. The 13 years of Jennifer's addiction, was boot camp training for … [Read more...]
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